Put yourself in my position. Imagine waking up every morning to 100+ comments about how worthless, ugly, stupid, illiterate, fat, fake, conceited, and how big of a joke you are by people who have absolutely no idea who you are, or what you’re dealing with in life. Nothing tops my cup of coffee like a load of hate. No matter what you do right, you’ll have thousands waiting to rip you apart and staple you down. Feels amazing right?
I forgive you. I forgive you for wasting your precious time commenting on how worthless my life is. Do those nasty comments make you feel more worthy? Do you feel better about yourself after bringing a person down?
Maybe you can explain something to me, because my “pathetic brain” doesn’t understand one thing. If you’re so confident, high, and mighty, then why do you create fake accounts to hide your identity? I have the balls to share my life (worthless or not) with the world and you don’t? Why spend so much time wasting your life creating fake accounts? Do you just have a big mouth and no balls? You must be just like me and have absolutely nothing important to do with your life. Please help me understand.
Do you have a lack of self-esteem? Is that why you feel the need to comment on my clothes, my hair, my face, my weight, and my damn eyebrows for goodness sake? Put the wine bottle down, feed your cats, and go out and do something that’ll boost your esteem because online bullying isn’t helping.
For some reason, I feel bad for you. I’m sad that you get pleasure out of ripping people apart, especially ones you do not know. A blogger shares their life, but not every aspect, so stop assuming you have any idea what their life is like.
Not only do I feel bad for you, I’m worried for you. Your stalker-ish behavior is dangerous and your obsession is a sign of mental illness. You spend hours Googling every detail about my life, you look up and post my addresses by image searching my pictures, you obsess over my family’s information, you call my parents realtor to go through the home I once lived in just to post on that forum. Do you know how creepy that is? According to you, I’m “not very smart”and I “don’t have anything important to say,” but I’m smart enough to know that stalking is illegal. Seeking help instead of bullying may be in your best interest, but what would I know? I have dyslexia, what’s your excuse?
The amount of time you spend commenting on my flaws must keep you from looking into your own life’s issues. You complain about what I do with my life or what I do to make me happy, but what about the time you spend on those pathetic forums talking about a person you don’t even know? Do YOU have a job? Instead of complaining about someone doing something that makes them happy, go out and do something that makes you happy. It’s obvious you’re all miserable people with desperate need for something better in life.
What kills me the most is that more than half of you are parents. I thought most of you were pretty smart, especially with all of those big words you use. Didn’t you know that bullying is a cycle and your kids will learn from you? Are you the reason for bullying in classrooms? Probably. Do you tell your kids how pathetic, stupid, illiterate, fat, fake, conceited, and how big of a joke they are too? It wouldn’t surprise me. You’re already a stalker, obsessed, and miserable person. Just throw abuse on your list too. It’s funny how you comment on mommy bloggers and their parenting styles, yet you waste your time teaching your kids how to bully. Get off the internets and go do something with them instead.
You always say you’re giving me constructive criticism, but that’s not constructive. Constructive is sending me an email or making a polite comment. Instead, you come in with daggers. So, I guess this is my turn.
Let me tell you something. You have been coming here trying to bring me down for almost five years, and guess what? I’m still here. I’m not going anywhere. Your words mean absolutely nothing to me. I laugh at the fact that you put so much effort into bringing me down. It’s almost an honor that I have that power on your life, and I don’t even know your name. No one will ever know your name, because you’re too much of a coward to put yourself out there and own up to your bullying behavior.
Twist my words around, call me fat, call me pathetic, tell me I can’t write, tell me I am worthless, tell me I need to kill myself and disappear, tell me I’m ugly, tell me I don’t know what real life is, tell me whatever you want, but let me tell you something.
I won’t let you dictate my life.
I’ll chase any dream that means something to me. I will wear my hair, make up, or clothes the way I want. I will buy what makes me happy. I’ll do whatever I want for a living. I’ll say whatever is on my mind. I’ll continue to be myself no matter how hard you laugh at me. I’ll love who I want to love. I’ll stand up for myself and what I believe in. I’ll share what I choose to share and not what you bully me into sharing. Your cynical comments will no longer get to me. I’ll eat whatever I want. I won’t change anything for you. I’ll keep being myself.
The only thing I’ll do for you is pray, because you need it.
God loves trolls too.
Ellie says
Taralynn –
I have followed your blog for about a year now and have been truly inspired by your posts. You are such an example and health and happiness. I always wonder how people in the public eye deal with the intense criticism that comes along with being so open. I hope you know that for every 1 person who makes horrible comments on your posts, there are probably at least 100 people who LOVE you and love your blog! Keep posting and ignore those who try to bring you down. You’re an amazing woman who inspires women throughout the world.
Sincerely,
Ellie
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks, Ellie.
Your support means a lot and it’s the readers like you that keep me going. Thank you for the kind words!
-Taralynn
Racquel K says
YOU GO GIRL!! 🙂 Tons of people love you and your blog and these people are just jealous! Props for saying what people are thinking when they read rude comments like those you are talking about!! I look forward to you blog posts each day! I check all the time! 😛 xo
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks, Racquel! Means a lot 🙂
Sophie says
This is the best response to trolls I’ve seen, keep going Taralynn, you’re better than them. You’ve inspired so many more people than these idiots so ignore them, keep your head held high and keep being awesome. x
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Sophie! 🙂
Anna says
Wow.
I assumed the bullying was bad because of the strictly moderated comments but I had no idea it was that bad. I was surprised to see so much of that when you posted to Lucie’s blog.
There may be a lot of negative comments coming in but just remember that there are so many silent readers (like me!) who support you. I think it is so brave of you to choose a career in writing when that is something that you struggle with. You are a beautiful person and you bring happiness to so many people.
I was recently a victim of identity theft (I know, this seems unrelated) but it is so scary to learn that someone would go through such great lengths to gain personal information about you. I can’t imagine what it would feel like to know they contacted a realtor to find out details about my house.
Good luck. I really hope that the comments don’t affect you too much. Maybe if you are having a bad day or need a break you could have a friend or family member delete stuff before you look at your email?
Taralynn McNitt says
Thank you Anna!
Having your identity stolen seems a lot scarier than what I go through! Hope you’ve recovered everything and all is well. Thank you for all the kind words and great advice!
Taralynn!
Sam @ PancakeWarriors says
oh darling I am so glad you don’t let people get you down. You are beautiful and inspiring and I’m glad you let yourself shine in spite of nasty people. You are right about people and their terrible obsession with making others feel bad. It’s not your job to please everyone. Keep being you. You are fab!!
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Sam! 🙂
Erica says
Wow. I’m sorry people do this to you. Some of the situations you wrote about and have been in is ridiculous. People have no respect and are just filled with so much judgement about themselves, they need to take it out on someone else. I have followed for a while and love everything you put up. Keep it going and block those haters. Loving the killing with kindness. 🙂
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Erica! You’re right about the ridiculousness! Thanks for the kind words and I’ll keep my head up!
Lauren says
Hey,
I’m so sorry people on here are rude as hell to you. You do not deserve any of that. No one does.
I have been following you since the beginning of your blog. I love reading your blog, and I would love meeting you one day.
Haters gonna hate. Shake it off. As Taylor swift would say.
Lauren
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks babe! That means a lot! XO
Cait says
Hello. This post is amazing. Please do not let the trolls get you down. You’ve helped so many people through your blog, can the trolls really not see that? Please remember that you’re awesome and nobody can change that other than you. And if the trolls cross any lines regarding your safety maybe the authorities can help? (I’m not sure, sorry >.<) Anyway, stay safe, stay strong. Good luck.
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Cait! I will definitely keep my head up and no longer tolerate the trolls!
Mary P. says
Taralynn,
I’m so sorry you’ve had to encounter people like that! You’ve definitely helped me through some really tough times! You are absolutely beautiful and so strong! I don’t know anyone who could exhibit the kind of strength and courage you have over the years! I’m really blessed to have found your site a few years ago! Don’t let a few loud, hateful people drown out the many more loving people who are so thankful for you!!!! 🙂
Love,
Mary P.
Taralynn McNitt says
That means the world to me. I’m blessed to have a reader like you!
Elisabeth says
Taralynn-
What an important post! I’m so sorry for what you’ve had to go through! I have been following your blog for a few years now and have always appreciated your honesty and your willingness to share your life with us. I’m sorry that some people haven’t been respectful of that! It takes so much strength and bravery to do what you have done.
I have really appreciated how personal you are in your writing- especially how your posts have grown in the past year! I hope you never lose the enjoyment of such a great hobby and profession, even with all the challenges. The end of this post- where you treat even the bullies with kindness- is something to look up to and shows so much maturity. Not only are you a great blogger, but that shows that you’re a great role model too. I’m so glad I found your blog and will always be a faithful, positive reader! 🙂
– Elisabeth
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Elisabeth!
I won’t let a bunch trolls who are not happy with themselves take away something I love doing. They can’t put a dull in my sparkle 😉 I’m so grateful to have a reader like you!
Thank you!
Lacey Moore says
Taralynn,
This post made me tear-up. You’re such a sweet girl. I figured you had your fair share of haters, but I had no idea they would go that far. I truly think they are just insanely jealous. You are young, beautiful, artistic, talented, a great cook, funny, SMART, kind…the list goes on. Undoubtedly those old turds are just mad b/c you work so hard for you body and know how to have self-control. Their kids are probably teenagers and they still haven’t lost the baby weight. You’re completely full of energy running around and having adventures and all they can do is sit in front of a computer wasting their days. When you went to France and wrote that post about the terrifying cab experience I teared-up again. I wanted you to have such an amazing time because you deserve it and I can’t imagine if something bad had happened. My husband started laughing at me for caring so much about someone I don’t even know, but you have been such a positive influence on me without even knowing it. This is my first time leaving you a comment, but I have followed your blog for about two years. You have helped me so much with making my lifestyle healthy. Thank you….Haters gonna hate. You just gotta shake it off =)
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks, Lacey.
I try not to invite the hate onto my blog by filtering the comments, but I still see it everyday. This morning just hit me hard and I needed to say something. Thank you for taking the time to comment and the time to lift me up. We need more people like you on this earth!
Have a blessed day!
Deanna says
Who are these people???? I can’t wrap my head the idea that some rando would go out of their way to do things like that. Like you said, I don’t even know you but I love your blog and I think you are beautiful inside and out! What’s wrong with people???????????????? Why do people have to take everything so seriously and let hate so easily consume their lives? You rule. Don’t change a thing!
Taralynn McNitt says
I wish I knew!
Thanks for these support Deanna!
Amy says
You go girl!!! 🙂 You are so beautiful inside and out and have such an amazing and inspiring story to share with the world!! Dont let the haters get you down–there will always be those people in life, but your dignity, strength, and grace speaks volumes more than their jealousy and insecurities ever will, and you have no idea how much you inspire others to be their best selves! Keep doing what you do and know that you have so many fans out there!
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Amy! That means so much!
Linda @ TheFitty says
A TO THE MEN, TARA!
I get hate sometimes and I think, “how ridiculous are you to think that you know better than me? How do you have the right to call me crazy? When did you become so high and almighty over me sharing and being honest with you? Get a life!”
I am saving this post forever and always Tara. You are so empowering.
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Linda! I appreciate your support and your comments every single day! You don’t deserve hate as no one does!
You keep your head up!
xo
Linda @ TheFitty says
I didn’t think you noticed at all that much, TARA! You always have my support. I’ve been following you on tumblr forever(thefitty) and I’ve read your story at least three times over the past three years. Over the years you’ve emerged into a beautiful human being from the time you started losing weight to now and I’ve heard many unfavourable rumors about you but didn’t buy into any of it!
Savannah says
Dear Taralynn,
I used to be a victim of bullying but I was to small to even consider the internet as a threat. Thankfully my school bullies didnt use it either but the still used words and actions to put me down. I escaped that life and built a new one in high school. My new life errased some painful memories but others sometimes hang over me. Since ive been following you blog, I have forgotten the memories that remained and ive turned my life around. I am a psychologist and i am currently working at a school to help children like me. While my pen name is savannah style, my real name is Luisa and i am from Colombia. My full story is in my blog savannastyle.blogspot.com. you are an inspiration to a lot of people and is us (the fighters) who are stronger than the few trolls in the world. Never let those hurtful cowards affect who you are and keep sharing your amazing story wi the world because you never know when you might save a life.
Taralynn McNitt says
I love that you are using your past experiencing and helping others. That is so brave and inspiring! Thank you for the kind words. It means so much to me!
Leticia says
I’ve been reading your blog posts for a few years now but never commented because I felt like I didn’t have anything to add to the conversation until now.
I really think you should know that I think you’re a great person. I admire your strength and the way you live your life with your head held high. You have a lot to be proud of.
It can’t be easy getting mean comments constantly…. and while I don’t doubt that you have the strength to handle it… I just think that you should have a reminder that for every mean comment you get there are 10 others who think you’re pretty awesome. Thank you for continuing to blog through the haters… because what you’re doing gives women like me hope. 🙂
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Leticia! It means so much to me that you took the time to comment and give me such great advice! Sometimes I need to hear little reminders like that. You’re amazing!
Lulie says
You are pretty inside and out. You are a brave woman. Thanks for keep sharing your lifestyle with us. Don’t worry cuz, haters gonna hate right?
Taralynn McNitt says
True that! THANKS Lulie!
Chelsea Huckabay says
Taralynn,
I love your blog and I always have. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone makes a typo now and then. I understand why people thought your plantation post was a little offensive…but I also understand that you of all people would never, ever mean anything rude or hateful in such a beautiful post. You wanted to share your photos. You were never trying to cause an uproar or offend anyone. I have been following you since the beginning and I have seen so many hateful comments, websites, forums, etc. about you and your personal choices. Why do these people care so much??? I like your blog because you’re honest, you’re yourself, and you have grown and learned in front of an audience. Your mistakes are out there for everyone to see, and I commend you for being brave and strong enough to put yourself out there like that. You have come so far and I’m so proud of you. I have struggled with so many of the same problems you have struggled with, and I don’t understand why people have to be hateful. I think you’re a great person, with a very innocent heart who tries very hard to do the right thing all the time. Everyone makes mistakes. Nobody should have the right to make you feel like crap over something you meant innocently.
Keep being yourself and keep growing and learning. Focus on the positive and the happy. Do what you want to do. Keep being honest and never forget that you have the choice to be happy and healthy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
Taralynn McNitt says
I loved reading this. No one is perfect and it would be unfair to expect anyone to be. I would never go out of my way to make a rude comment or disrespect someones beliefs or race. I understand people like to take words and twist them around and the current media isn’t helping much. Your comment lifted me up and reminded me to stay true to who I am and what I believe in.
Thank you for everything!
Jen says
Hi Tara,
I’ve been reading your blog for several years every day and I’ve yet to comment! I’m the same age as you and I love reading about your life and seeing how much happiness you have found in your new city 🙂
You are so talented, and creative and a huge inspiration! I couldn’t believe all the nasty comments on Lucie’s blog about you. You took a new opportunity and not everything will go perfectly but the important thing was you weren’t afraid to go out and do it! And that’s more than those trolls will ever be capable of !
Thank you for letting us into your life and I hope you can keep calm & cook on 🙂
Jen
Taralynn McNitt says
That is so sweet of you! Thanks Jen 🙂
Jessica says
Wow! I bet that felt good to write 🙂 I feel bad that you have to deal with people who TRY to bring you down. If they have nothing better to do than to write rude, untrue, inconsiderate, and hateful comments on your blog – what does that say about their life? They must be a miserable person. Just keep your head up and know that you have tons of readers who love your blog and think you are a great person!
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks jessica! Your comments bring up up every single day and I appreciate it! You’re awesome 🙂
Sarah says
Taralynn,
I can’t believe you are having so many problems with people and I am so sorry for you. What is happening is so cruel and unnecessary. I have been reading your blog for over 3 years and you have inspired me so much. You are the reason I started my own blog (first a weightloss and fitness blog and now a new lifestyle blog). The people that are leaving those comments are bullies and its easy for them to be brave and criticize you while hiding behind a false identity and a keyboard. While these people are busy obsessing and being cruel about you and your life, you are out living it and experiencing the world.
You are putting yourself out there and there will always be people waiting to criticize but remember (like was said in previous comments) there are so many silent followers of your blog that love reading your posts and are inspired to try new thing because of your writing.
It’s impossible to get rid of the bullies but you inspire and motivate so many people. Keep your chin up sweetie and don’t let the cruel cowardly people drag you down.
Looking forward to reading your next post (as always)
Sending you lots of love, Sarah xx
Taralynn McNitt says
Thank you so much for the words and for reading my blog. I will definitely keep my chin up and it’s people like you that keep me going!
xo
Joslyn says
You are a strong woman, Taralynn! I’ve been following your blog for about 2 years now. You have inspired me to do SO much more with my life, and you continue to do so to this day! These disgusting people know they aren’t capable of accomplishing what you have done with your life so they stick with the only thing they are good at – bullying. You’re beautiful, you’re healthy, you’re kind, and when people see that they feel threatened. Go out there and shine, because believe me, you impact so many more lives than you think. “We can either make ourselves miserable or make ourselves strong. The amount of work we put in is the same.”
Taralynn McNitt says
Thank you Joslyn!
LOVE THAT QUOTE! i won’t forget that!
Katrina says
People make fun of your eyebrows?! I love how you can put light hearted humor in the darkness of this situation. Keep on keeping on. You are an inspiration to so many people. I read your blog everyday and I love it!!
PS- you have amazing eyebrows!! What are those trolls thinking??
Taralynn McNitt says
lol they find anything they can to make me feel bad. I love my eyebrows lol 😉
Minde says
You’re an inspiration to so many! No one can ever take that away from you. Keep doing what you do because for every hater there’s a 100 more who appreciate you.
Thank you for taking the time to share your life and struggles with us. And on the bad days, just remember we are here for you!
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks minde! Means so much!!
Jaime says
Hey Taralynn,
You have such a great attitude about this. I think it’s hard to be so accepting of something that could easily tear you down but clearly it’s making you stronger! Keep on doing what you’re doing, you have a whole group of readers who love and support everything you do! Thanks for sharing your life with us, I love your recipes and all of your posts!
Jaime
Taralynn McNitt says
Thanks Jaime!
Ashley Pederson says
Wow! Can’t believe people would stoop so low. There is a great book out by Nancy Omeara titled, “Creating Hate: How It Is Done, How To Destroy It: A Practical Handbook” http://www.authornancyomeara.com/. It’s an instant classic – will open your eyes
Taralynn McNitt says
I’ll look into that !Thank you!
Ashley Pederson says
You’re welcome!
Melissa says
I CANT EVEN BELIEVE that you would have people trolling your site!! I have been reading/following you for a while now and love you! This post literally blows my mind. I see it all the time on IG.. comments like- “ya great body but her face is gross”… as if the account holders don’t see or read those comments- or as if they aren’t even humans. Its crazy. I’m sorry you have to deal with the trolls 🙁
xo
Amy says
Sure, there are sometimes that I will notice a spelling mistake or poor grammar, but that doesn’t require the need to call you out on it, especially in a rude manner… People make mistakes! That’s what makes us human!
Plus, there are many posts that I choose not to fully read or I skip over entirely – if you write something that doesn’t jive with me, who cares?! I read your blog because you do write things that interest me, just not 100% of the time. That’s life! That doesn’t give anyone the right to call you out on what you post. We should be valuing that people lead different lives than we do!
Anyway… my rant is done. If I could give you a standing round of applause, I would. You do you, Taralynn, and we’ll keep reading! 🙂
Amanda says
People can be bullies, even ones that have children of their own. Don’t stop living in the light just because the darkness consumes them. The best way to “stick it to the man” (School of Rock) is to keep being the best you! Live for the people you love and the ones that support you. As Ellen would say….”be kind to one another”! Love your blog! Keep being you 🙂 Stay Strong!
Amanda
Lauren says
Thank you for posting this Taralynn. I can’t believe people could be so cowardly as to hide behind the internet and attack others. And creepy too!!! I can’t even imagine the terrible things you have read, and I would wish no one to be in your place. I admire you taking the high road and forgiving them, Lord knows they need some serious help. Hang in there girl and know there are hundreds who would say you are beautiful, smart, and talented, let those comments sink in. Don’t let those words hurt you, they are from people who are hurting and need some love shown to them.
Elizabeth says
Hi Tara,
You are amazing! Not only are your past and present achievements an inspiration to me, but so is this post. Your blog is a gift to me, as I’m sure it is to many of your other readers. Keep doing what you’re doing, I can feel your happiness through your blog.
Elizabeth
Angela says
I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with this! Just know that for every troll, there is at least 1-2 people that LOVE your content and look forward to reading what you have to say. Everyone’s journey is different and some people honestly have nothing better to do than to make others feel bad. We all go through difficult times, and honestly reading your posts is a breathe of fresh air sometimes. Keep doing you girl! xoxo
RunEatRepeat says
Well said! You rock. Carry on 🙂
Rebecca says
Stay stong Taralynn! I read your blog every day and your an inspiration to myself and sooooo many others! It is scary to think of the awful creepy things you mentioned in this post and I had no idea people were treating you like that!!! All I can say is keep doing what you are doing because it truly is something wonderful. Your story inspires people from not only all over the states, but all over the world. Myself and many others will always be here to stand by you.
XO Rebecca – Boston, Massachusetts
Jess says
I have followed your blog for a number of years now and I can’t believe you get such hate! You seem like such a lovely, happy, caring person and I always look forward to your posts because they cheer me up and put a smile on my face 🙂
Amber says
You tell em girl![:
ashley says
Taralynn,
You are such an inspiration to so many readers! There are a lot of us that don’t comment but we still enjoy reading your blog. I talk about you all the time, is that weird. I’m not a troll I swear. But for example I’m always like, “you know the blog I follow, taralynn.” I’m always referencing you because you have a huge influence on us all. I feel like your famous which is why I get so excited when you respond or I get a snapchat!
Thank you for everything you do! So glad you are still going strong and not letting the trolls get you down. You have us !!!
Ashley
Dana says
Dear Taralynn,
You are an inspiration to readers of all ages, I’m 43 and I just love your blog. Because of your photography, I’ve been inspired to take more pictures. Because of your workout posts I’ve been inspired to try new things. Because of your recipes I’ve been eating more salads. You make a difference in a lot of peoples lives, I can see that in the comments. And I for one, thank you for it.
All the best,
Dana
Liz says
In the words of the beautiful Taylor Swift “The haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate
Baby, I’m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake
I shake it off, I shake it off”
(Haha- love her)
Keep on going Taralynn! You have helped inspire me to lose thirty pounds! I love reading your blog because you are REAL! You have flaws! You are someone I could bump into on the street and become friends with because you are so genuine. I can’t believe people would tear you down and just be straight up creepy! Let those haters hate, know that there are so many more people who love you!
Chelsea says
The world is full of mean people, the internet just makes them more visible 🙁 Hope you keep your head up and know that there are many people that care for you!
Holley says
Hey Taralynn!
I have followed your blog for over a year now, and I absolutely love reading your posts because you are always so REAL and that inspires me. Putting yourself on the internet and in the public eye makes you vulnerable, and it is sad that people take advantage of this. People are crazy… I hope there is more positivity in response to your blog than negativity, and I am happy to see that you are able to see past the ridiculousness of the “trolls.” Keep doing you, girl!!! We are all cheering for you!
Sincerely,
Holley
Rachel says
Wait, are you serious?! Someone went so far as to want to go through your parents’ old house? What is wrong with people?!
I am so sorry that you have to deal with this!
Stacie says
Tara,
As a wise woman once said…”haters gonna hate hate hate hate so shake it off!” As another wise woman once said….”I woke up like this!”
Keep doing what you’re doing and being incredible. You are an inspiration to many!
xo
Massi says
Honestly, when I found your blog was like having another chance to change, I was sick of trying to lose weight the wrong way, I literally threw up all my problems and when I saw that you went through so many things that made you feel bad, I felt identified with you because in the end we are all human and we have problems but somehow made me realize that I had a better way to happiness. That’s why I say that even though there are hundreds of people who say bad things about you I do not care nor all who support you because you are an example of courage and strength for who exposes his life so that others know they are not alone and you are the most beautiful and strongest person that I know and would give anything to be half of what you are, you are unique and do not let the stupid comments you say otherwise. Look, I’m a Mexican girl who knows you’re the best person in the world and there’s so many people like me who love you. I really admire you. 🙂
Karli says
And they say you can’t write?! This was beautiful and very thoughtfully written. You inspire SO many people. There’s nothing these sad individuals can say to make that untrue. And the inspiration, happiness, and love you share is what’s most important. You go Taralynn!
Laura says
Taralynn I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with stalkers and people so full of hate! You are a beautiful, amazing, inspiring girl with so much potential. As the other posts said, these trolls are jealous of your happiness in life. I hope they don’t bring you down too much. Remember there are many other readers who are inspired by you everyday, and who believe in you!
Tany says
I never ever commented here and I think I read you for two years now. I’ve seen some ups and downs and I feel like we are so similar in a few things and very different in others but I just feel so many good things about you and I honestly am surprised someone thinks those things of you.
I have even more respect for you now for writing what you just wrote. You are amazing. Don’t let them bring you down and don’t forget that for one hater you have five people who really care.
Take care. <3
ashhash14 says
Oh jeez! The only thing I hate about you is that you seem too awesome to be real! LOL. I wish I had half your creativity and craftiness. Most importantly, you’re beautiful inside and out.
It takes tons of bravery to put your life out there for all to see, but I have no doubt you have helped people crawl out of bad times and helped people who struggle realize they are not alone and have helped them on the path to health and balance. And that is worth everything!
As someone said earlier, I’m sure you have 100x the fans for every hater. Much love!
Marisa says
I’m so sorry Taralynn!! Trollers gonna troll and haters gonna hate!
Your blog brings so much positivity and light to readers all over the world! Keep surrounding yourself with people whom you love and lift you up – you deserve it!!
“Find a place where there’s joy and the joy will burn out the pain.”
-Joseph Campbell
“Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.”
-Helen Keller
<3
Amber Taylor says
I often wonder how people with blogs deal with the hateful, judgmental comments. I know how it would affect me and I know I wouldn’t be as gracious as you are. You are an inspiration and I hope you know that one sad internet troll is nothing compared to the thousands of people you influence positively. We got your back!
Emily says
This makes me unbelievably sad… I am so sorry the world is full of nasty people with rotten hearts. You have been a role model to me and my life for years now and nothing you have done has steered me wrong. You even inspired me to start blogging myself when I lost my best friend in May. I had no where to turn, but somehow I found solace in blogging–something I would have never considered if I had never found your blog. You were the first blog I started following and I check your blog for updates weekly (okay sometimes daily haha). But you really do inspire me to be the best version of myself. That’s why, when I came to your blog now, hoping for some inspiration and hope after a rough week of heartache, a breakup, and looming college finals…I found that my role model is being torn down. But instead of hiding from it, or pretending it doesn’t happen, you stood up for yourself. Thank you Taralynn, for once again showing your beautiful positive soul.
xoxo Emily
Sarah says
I hope you realize that you are an inspiration to so many people! I’m so sorry that there are awful people out there seeking to hurt you, but there are so many more people who love reading your blog. I’ve been a loyal reader for almost four years and I’m beyond proud of how far you’ve come. Don’t let the haters get you down, girl!
Holly says
Hi!
Dedicated reader here for about three and a half years. It takes a special person to keep someone (me) to keep coming back again and again to read posts about your awesome life! Thats something special that you need to hold on to, and its also, unfortunately, what makes haters so jealous they need to try to bring you down! I am so happy you don’t let that get to you. I can tell you, you have way more supporters than haters! We love you! 😀
-Holly
Emy says
Hello:
Come on! You’re an inspiration!!! You inspired me to cook on first place. Now I enjoy it a lot. Thank you and keep going! 🙂
Ariel says
Taralynn,
I’m so sorry for all the unkind, negative, and hateful comments people have sent you. I will never be able to understand how people can be so hateful and cruel. Thank you for staying strong and not letting those people affect your attitude! You have inspired me and made my day so many time just through your blog! Thank you! I want to be like you so much! 🙂 I’m thankful God has blessed with world with people like you who help others! Stay strong and praying for you!
Angela says
You are so brave. I respect this post so much!
Ashley @ AllAshleyMarie says
Taralynn, I have been following your blog for a few years now and I’m so inspired by everything that you do and the way that you take charge of your own life. You have really given me the courage to live a healthier, happier life and to be the best version of myself that I can. Without you and your blog, I don’t know where I would be today!
Lauren says
As long as you’re on the internet and putting yourself out there, you will get hate. That’s life. As for the “I forgive you” statement, that was some real bullshit. Maybe people are trying to help. Your blog posts are so bad. This is funny to me to read your mistakes, there are always plenty!This just made you look like a giant sensitive baby. Also, God isn’t real :/
Jen says
@Lauren What is wrong with you? It’s a shame that spiteful, hateful, ugly people like you even exist. You seriously have some form of mental/emotional conduct disorder and are heading down a dark path. Bringing people down seems to get you off somehow and I’m sorry to tell you my friend, YOU are not the “normal one”. So it’s kind of ironic that you’d be singling out Taralynn when clearly YOU are the one with the problems and the mistakes. Let me give you a few words of advice…You don’t always have to like someone, but you should respect them. So you don’t like Taralynn, that’s okay. Then respect yourself and her enough to leave her blog and leave your gross comments to yourself. Best of luck
Hnou says
Hi Tara! I think your blog is inspiring. People who say mean things like that want to put others down because they are not happy with themselves. They do it so they don’t have to accept that they have issues and so that they don’t have to deal with their issues. You just keep on keeping on.
Carley @ Optimistic Health says
Pure awesomeness. That is the best writing I think I’ve ever read.
There are a few things I’ve learned about mean women, just like you said, they are VERY INSECURE. Misery likes company. Girls have been mean since middle school or heck even earlier and all I can do is look at where those broads are now and smirk. These people suck at life and have absolutely NOTHING going for them.
Keep doing you. You’re rocking it!
Bethany says
Wow Taralynn! Sorry to hear that! I love your blog:) it is one my favorites and I always look forward to reading it! Xo
Laura says
Loyal reader over here! I appreciate your vulnerability every day! Soak up that Carolina sun sister and keep livin the life that many could only imagine about 😉
Tara says
I’m sorry to hear about this. I value how honest you have been with your blog and other’s like you who share such inspiring stories and make the blogosphere that much more fun every day. SimplyTaralynn is one of my go to blogs when I need a pick me up in my day! Keep writing!
Tracy says
Dear Taralynn,
first of all: sorry, if my english isn`t so good. I will try my best….
I never commented either on your posts, but I read them a lot. The first time I discovered you as a person was 3 or 4 yeras ago, dont remember exactly when, but I know that you got me since then. Your story, your creativity, your positive mind and your whole lifestyle is just amazing. I would give a lot to have your discipline and your determination. You are inspiring and I hope, that someday I can stand up like you and be so happy about myself as you seem to be. Of course we all dont know you in private, but the work, the passion and all this positive energy that you show us cant be a lie. You can be so damn proud of yourself! Just realize what you achieved!!! Never listen to this bullshit comments. You are totally right, if someone is worthless, then it is those trolls out there, who waste their time to stress you, to stalk you and to show everyone how bad their souls are. If they dont like you, why in hell do they even read or stalk you?! I dont understand it. I think its really really cheap and nasty to behave like that. Tara, dont give up, stay strong, live your life, stand up for yourself because you are awesome! Be proud and dont give a f*** on these poor comments. LOVE YOU! xoxo
Ren says
You are my biggest inspiration just keep your head up hi!!
I had a problem like this once and you remind me that even people like you have this kind of thing happen to them. Love the new blog layout!! :)) <3
~~~**rependejisima pero Bella y Linda!**~~~ <3
Jo says
Well said xx
Lynn says
You know, I’ve said this before to others, if you don’t like what you’re reading or the anything about the person or their blog, STOP READING IT!! It’s that simple – no one’s forcing you to read about a person. Your blog is something I read every day, and truly appreciate how positive you stay. I fight pessimism every day (and weight), and get such a lift reading your blog – thank you for being you, please keep on 🙂
Suzanne says
Sweet girl- I have been following your blog for several years now. Even though I’m old enough to be your mother (!) I have learned so much about diet, nutrition, health, and self-discipline, etc. from you. When I read hateful comments on anybody’s blog it makes me think they really don’t hate the person they are commenting on- but they truly just hate themselves. Anyone who has that much hate, anger and ugliness in their heart must truly be a miserable person. You are sweet and kind so I can understand how this would be hurtful, but know there are people out there that just search for people like you to try to make them as miserable as they are. Keep up the great work and know that you really are an inspiration to people.
Mathilde B says
Dear Taralynn,
I have been reading you for a while now. Even though I don’t succeed in being as healthy as you are, you are an inspiration. You’ve opened up about many things in your life. You never lied to yourself and to your readers. You are truly honest and that’s what I like about you. It must be hard reading all these mean comments, but many people read you and don’t write anything. So there’s probably more people enjoying your blog than hating it ! There will always be trolls hiding behind their computers like cowards. Well, if they want to remain childish and stupid, good for them ! But there’s one thing I’ve learned in like: karma is a b***h 😉
We love you Taralynn ! Keep writing and be awesome 🙂
Mathilde
Lindsay says
YARG! My comment disappeared.
That’s deeply disturbing what you describe and bordering stalking/obsessive behaviour. AKA these people need to get off their asses and make something of their lives instead of feeling stupidly empowered behind their little screen and keyboard. It’s disgusting how people treat and talk to one another. Why can’t we all just be happy for one another and uplift them? Be supportive of them, be positive.. I just don’t get it. Hate and negativity spreads like wildfire and with all of it in this world, who needs to add more to the pile?!
Keep your chin up girl. I’ve been a long time reader from Ontario, Canada and I especially love your posts about Grumples, your pictures and most recently, your trip abroad.
Merry Christmas hun
xoxo
Alissa says
I don’t have anything to add beyond the sweet comments everyone has already left–hope this lets you know how much your readers appreciate and are inspired by you. I am in awe of how tough you are to deal with such horrible words. I try to remind myself that “people’s comments about you have nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them,” but some of this stuff is just beyond 🙁
Sending you love and hugs.
Alissa
Jinx says
I found your blog recently after losing it a few years ago. First, I’m extremely happy and proud to see how healthy you are!! However, I was so hurt and disgusted when I went to google your name to find your twitter and stumbled upon a forum of a bunch of SICK people! over 800 pages of people obsessing over you non stop. I spoke up for you a few times on that forum to be attacked by others. It’s horrible and I wish something could be done to take down that hate! People are absolutely sick and twisted. Stay strong and continue to blog and do what makes you happy girl! It’s clear you have a ton of people supporting you!!
Melodie says
Wonderful post, keep keeping your head high girl!
Your aura of kindess and internal + external beauty is powerful enough to be felt through the internet, and obviously a lot of people can’t deal with how jealous they are of you.
Gros bisous 🙂
Taralynn McNitt says
Thank you everyone for the kind words and support!
Michael says
I’ve been quietly following your blog since the Undressed Skeleton days. I found it shortly after leaving the military, I wasn’t in the best of places, and your blog truly helped. Your transformation has been nothing short of amazing, both physically and mentally. Never let these people dictate your mood, not the slightest bit. As long as you are doing what you love, nothing they say matters. And if they keep it up they’re going to have your legion of fans on their butts!
Stay positive and best wishes!
Stephanie says
Hi Taralynn,
Although I have followed your blog for over a year I have never commented before on a post, but after reading how horribly you’ve been treated by bullies, I felt the need to say thank you for continuing to inspire many people by your kindness and honesty on many things from food, fitness, relationships, health and now even bullies. Many of these I, and many others, can relate to and have struggled with.
Keep your chin up and stay strong!
Best,
Stephanie
Paije says
Taralynn,
I was shocked to read this article! How anyone could say such vulgar things about a person who has just wanted to help make the world a happier and healthier place by sharing their experiences in life is beyond me. I find you to be such an inspiration and, although I don’t know you personally, a beautiful person both inside and out! Keep going for your dreams and know that for every “hater” out there, there are 10 that love and respect you!
Anja says
Dear Tara,
I´m totally shocked by the way some people treat you. You are totally right – this behaviour is far beyond noraml, those people are insane!!! I´m glad to hear how well you handle those bullies. Don´t ever let them get you down. You are a wonderful and bright person!
Best,
Anja
Karen C says
Yes! Thank you so much for standing up to these wretched people! They have run off and other bloggers and I’m glad you are not going to give them the satisfaction of running you off, too! More power to you, good luck and God bless!
P says
Hey Taralynn! I am a long long time lurker, but have never commented. I found your bog when I was at my most unhealthy and unfit state and although I did not follow in your path completely, you, along with other people have been my aspirations. I always thought, if she could do it.. I can too.
I am currently being trolled in a very bad way too. There’s a group of people who keep creating blogs and posting my pictures on them (stolen from my social media when my profile picture was visible) with vulgar keywords. I know exactly how you feel, but I wish I had your strength. The most I have been able to do is ignore them completely and let the law do its work. I know what it takes to publicly call them out like this. A LOT.
All this to say.. I’m a big fan. Of your blog, your life and now, also your strength.
P.s. Can you use this comment instead of the earlier one. I realized after I posted it that it had my name on it
Alejandra says
Taralynn,
Haters gonna hate! You can either be happy with yourself or worry what others think and live a very miserable life. I’ve been following you for some time and I have been inspired with your positivity and peppiness. I admire you so much and love your blog. Keep doing your thing ’cause it’s working!
Lots of love from Mexico!!
Christine says
I rarely comment on anything in the internet world, but this post deserves a standing ovation. I’ve been following your blog for close to a year now, and it is seriously my daily pick-me-up. All your posts are so down to earth and inspiring! It baffles me that there are so many people out there with nothing better to do with their lives than to bash others, while creepily hiding behind a computer screen.
Keep being you and thank you for sharing a part of your world with us!
Shellie says
Taralynn,
I have been following you for years and you are amazing. I was scrolling through the comments today and saw that someone commented about how they could understand people thinking you were being insensitive about the plantation post. I reread that post and thought what are people thinking!?! I’m half black and took absolutely no offense to what you wrote. I think sometimes people forget to focus on the beauty of things and only want to see the negative. Of course the plantation may have a negative history but it does not mean it is not an absolutely stunning place now. I would like to know what the place looked like back in the day too. Are people going to say negative stuff about that. Keep doing what your doing. You must be an amazingly strong person to let all of us into your life on a daily basis. Thank you for taking us with you on your adventures.
Suzanne says
Taralynn, your blog is so fun, uplifting, and truly inspiring. Without even sharing every detail of your life, you are able to connect with so many readers like me. Although it may be hard to look past the terrible people who only want to upset you, just remember all the people like me who love reading your blog and appreciate all the recipes, ideas, and wisdom you have shared with us. 🙂
Emily says
Taralynn,
I am a religious reader of your blog and this sickens me. I have never ever viewed you as stupid, ugly, or anything of the other things you listed above. It just baffles me that anyone could think those things about you- you are so the opposite. You are really inspiring to so many girls. You really seem to have your life together and make time for yourself- something a lot of young girls struggle to do. You’re always doing things for others and spending time with your family and dog. To be honest, I’ve read your blog many times and thought to myself “wow I hope I end up like her”. I just can’t believe someone would say these things about my internet idol.
I’m sorry that this happened to you- it’s not right.
Casey says
Love your blog and follow it! Have recommended it to others. Ignore the haters as much as possible & go your merry way girl! YOU are doing a wonderful job and do not think otherwise. I absolutely love your food ideas/recipes and have made a few, always a success. Keep up the great work!
Andrea says
I follow a lot of blogs and I truly feel like bloggers are special people. They allow others to essentially read the diary of their lives. I see blogs as a way to see what is happening in someone’s daily life. In a different state, in a different time in their lives than me, with different upbringings and lifestyles. I love it. To make comments based on how you live your life seems so petty. Just know that the silent ones truly just like being able to be allowed to see you. I think the readers that matter are the ones who are supportive of you and are rooting for you to wake up each day and keep doing what you are doing. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. Stay true to yourself Taralynn. You have way more supporters than you know 🙂
Andrea
Taylor says
I am one of millions that love you because of what an amazing role model you are to girls. People need others like you for inspiration and to show them what they have the power to do when they take control of their own lives. You do so much for people and I can not believe that there are people out there that are so bored and hateful that they want to bring you down. I’m so glad that you don’t let it, and I hope these internet bullies find a hobby!
Millie says
Wow, that sort of bullying is the thing you expect from infants who don’t know any better and can’t identify their own longing. You know like when you’re 5 years old and you see your friend with an amazing toy and instead of asking to share you call them something to make them feel bad like ‘stinky’.
I can’t believe adults would direct such hate at a young woman. Well no, I can, a lot of weak and bitter people use the internet as an ill form of self therapy. They need to realise it is not anonymous and they can be found.
This all clearly stems from jealousy Tara, 100%. Perhaps they wish to drag you down to their level, they see someone who successfully changed who they were and they hate it. They can’t believe that anyone can change themselves or be happy with changing, it disrupts their order of things which is something like “I can’t change who I am and it’s everyone elses fault and I will be miserable therefore everyone else must be miserable and unable to be happy or prosper”.
They wan’t you back down in the gutter where they are. They need to realise their lives can be just as fulfilling, they just have to work hard, the truth is they have an inability to work hard and so they hide behind the soft, comforting glow of the computer screen and wretch out their guttural discontent.
You know, Oscar Wilde said “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars”. Remember that Internet Trolls, you can’t stop this hard working girl or anyone else from looking at the stars.
Erica says
Taralynn, I am so sorry to hear about this. It can’t be good for your health to see such horrible, negative comments. I love your blog and look forward to reading it every day. I echo everyone else’s positive sentiments, and I wanted to suggest something that might help you avoid having to actually read/filter through the hateful comments. I am a big fan of Tim Ferriss and he often mentions how he hires people to sift through his emails – I’m not sure how expensive this is or what service he uses, but I feel like hiring someone to read/filter the comments for you would be well worth it, for you and your well-being!! 🙂
Happy holidays!!
Mei says
No offense Taralynn, but I think you’ve proven time and time again that you have no life or self esteem. The fact that you took the time to actually write this eloquent post about your bullies only proves it. An adult would actually apologize for what their “bullies” are accusing them of doing and completely ignore the criticisms that don’t matter. As a blogger, it is your responsibility as an admired blogger to address such things. If you are just going to point the finger at other people and not blog professionally, then maybe you should stick to being a housewife to your boyfriend.
Amelia says
Why should she apologize to anyone for living her OWN life?
Casey says
Oh come on really?? No offense but you might want to think about getting a life Mei and stop being so rude! Re-read what you wrote! This girl has more life and self esteem than most! Oh you are probably another one jealous of her! Grow up and if you don’t have nice things to say, don’t say anything on here! 🙁
Jinx says
Troll
brit says
Offense Mei, but I think you’ve proven to all of us how much of a hater you are. You are so jealous of Taralynn. Would you tell your kids to apologize to a bully? I don’t think so! You are such an ugly person.
Caro says
Bla bla bla Mei …
If Mei is really your name
Clare says
Dear Taralynn,
I have followed your blog (and pinterest) for a while and it has really helped me improve my life by leading a healthy and happy life.
I am shocked by vile and nasty people that think that somehow by upsetting and writing awful comments to people makes their life better. The only words I have for them is words of pity, pity that they don’t have family or friends that can help them wake up from this awful world they obviously inhabit.
Please just remember that every morning when you wake up there is a huge following of people that admire, look up to you and enjoy your blog.
Take Care and keep doing what your doing, and most importantly please keep smiling that infectious smile of yours. Clare/xxx
Lauren deVaux says
You keep doing you…don’t worry yourself over people that have nothing of their own. You are an inspiration…your parents should be proud. Your friends should be grateful to have you in their life and I am thankful you share the little you do about your life. Keep your chin held high and keep doing you. 🙂
Kacie says
Hey I just wanted to let you know that I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years now and you are such an inspiration. These people that try to bring you down don’t realize that you don’t have to like or agree with everything someone does. It’s your right to post whatever you feel like. It’s sad that they can’t find anything better to do than read a blog that they supposedly hate. Stay strong and don’t change for anyone!:)
dani says
Hi Tara, I have been reading your lovely blog for nearly 2 years but have never left a message until now. After reading this post I felt I had to say something just to show my support. Your blog is fun, refreshing and colourful. I find it so inspiring. I hope you and Mr Grumples have a very Merry Christmas. “For shame you internet grinches, for shame grrrrrrrrr”
Charissa says
Taralynn you have made a huge difference in my life & I read your blog almost every day! Keep doing you because there’s TONS of people that actually care and look up to you. Ignore the haters because you are AWESOME! 🙂
Stephanie says
I think you’re lovely and courageous. F*** the haters. Don’t even read their BS. They are sad cowards who will never amount to half the human you are. 🙂 Keep on inspiring!
Natasha says
Girl, Im so proud of you !!!! I have followed your blog for probably two years now. I found those trolls a while ago and couldn’t believe what I was reading. You are great! Haters gonna hate 🙂 Keep doing what makes you happy and know there a lot of people out there silently reading your blog. You are awesome, always know that!
Claire says
Like assumedly most of your readers, I silently bounce around fitness and lifestyle blogs every few days to gain insight and motivation. Truly your blog is a breath of fresh air. You have a gift to make everything seem light and beautiful. You’re the Jennifer Aniston of bloggers. This blog is very homey and that’s why I’ve come back to it throughout the years. So thank you for being a boss at what you do!
Mackenzie says
GIRRRRL. I love this post. you are seriously my favorite blogger to follow. You are talented. You are honest, sincere, vulnerable, and real. And yeah people can attack you…but let’s be real, it’s cause they are jealous as all get out. For me personally: You have inspired me to blog, have balance in my life, enjoy the little things, travel, etc. And that is just me… you have had such an impact on so many. I know you know this, but I figure hearing it again doesn’t hurt 😉 YOU DO YOU. Haters gonna hate, but so many more will appreciate.
Betsy says
I admire that you have put this post up! While I don’t follow any blog consistently I have been encouraged by your words and enjoy seeing the recipes you post! It breaks my heart to even think people get paid to be mean to others but even worse for the ones that don’t get paid and waste their life trying to ruin others lives when they are only ruining theirs. Thank you for standing up to the people who find it fun or addicting to stalk you and be cruel. We are all created uniquely and God designed that so we could all encourage one another to live the life He meant for us to live, not try to be someone else or ruin their life because of jealousy. We all know where the ignorant and crude comments come from, “the devil comes to steal, kill, and destroy” Continue to walk in who you were created to be, you are an encouragement to many! We are called to pray for our enemies, that is the only thing that can truly bring someone to realize their actions and begin to change! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your life so that others may grow and learn from your experiences!
Blessings
Whitney says
As most of your readers have stated, I am among those who silently visit your blog and have been for a few years now. I came across your blog on pinterest a few years back when strolling for fitness and clean eating inspiration. Since the first time I clicked on your blog I have never looked back. I have made countless recipes from your posts and have turned some of my close friends onto following your blog as well. I have you bookmarked on toolbar for easy access. After reading this post it made me incredibly sad because I am in my first year of teaching at a local elementary school and have had a few problems with my second graders bullying. Now I realize that your completely right parents truly can be the cause of bullying in school. Its pathetic but those are the people who will ultimately live an unhappy life. Keep doing what your doing, your an inspiration and an icon for so many people. Like Claire said “You are the Jennifer Anistons of blogging!”
Stay True 🙂
Jessica says
You go girl! I think your blog is fun to read and very inspirational 🙂
abby says
Taralynn, I’ve been reading your blog from the beginning, when you were just known for being the girl in the green dress. Since then, something about your honest writing and positive disposition, even through hard times, kept me coming back and following your life and your blog for 5 years (in a non-creepy, non-stalkerish way.). You ARE gorgeous on the outside, and have great eyebrows (idk wtf is up with that insult lol)- but that doesn’t matter to me, or any good person. The most important thing is that, throughout the 5 years I’ve been following your story, you have kept that sweet, kind, & beautiful soul and spirit that you started with. You are an amazingly inspiring individual and it breaks my heart that people could be so cruel to someone as kind as you. I usually never post comments on blogs I read, but I was actually shocked you are subjected to so much hate and violent threats, and I felt the need to leave a comment this time. I cannot believe people actually take time out of their lives to literally stalk you and try to rip apart the wonderful person you are. The advice I was going to give you was to pray for these people, but you beat me to it. (: The Bible says you should not worry about judging or even forgiving these types of people, because God is the one whose job it is to both judge and forgive. All you can do is pray for them. I’ll pray for you, too, that you continue to be the smart and confident individual that you are, and not let the haterzzzz get you down! Have a lovely, happy holidays!
Ivana says
Hey Taralynn!
I really hope you don’t take the hate personally from the cyber bullies! You are doing good and are a major inspiration to many including me. Whether you do good or bad you will never be able to make everyone happy. These people need to put others down to feel good because deep down they know they have issues and are jealous of you and your life. So please don’t let these people change you or your thoughts about yourself. Like you said, they people need your pity and forgiveness because they are the ones in pain and hurting.
Meela @ Irieday.com says
You’re a beautiful human inside and out.
Thank you for continuing to subject yourself to the haters so that you can also provide for us fans.
Keep shining your light lady! <3
Allison says
Just wanted to add my voice to everyone who is supporting you, Taralynn. I’ve enjoyed reading your posts for more than a year now, and I’m so sorry that people are hassling you. It is deeply saddening to think about what kind of bitter, empty lives these people must lead, that they find any enjoyment out of harassing strangers on the Internet. It takes a lot of courage to reveal as much as you do, and it’s clear from the comments and from the success of your blog that you have been a positive influence on many people. I suspect a lot of that has to do with the upbeat attitude of your writing, and I hope you will continue not to allow these unfortunate people to interfere with that. Bless you, and hang in there.
steph says
Go Tara!
I have been reading your blog for the last 3 years. It’s the only blog I read. Why? Because it’s interesting, makes me think, inspires me to go out and do things I would never have thought to do. It makes my life bugger and better because it inspires me to do what you do – be me and live big!
Trolls can go and climb under a bridge and learn some manners. You are amazing at what you do. Obviously. Look at all these people from all over the world who love to read what you write.
Keep doing what you do, girl. You’re a champion 🙂
Cassie says
Hi Taralynn! I have been reading your blog for a couple years and you inspire me so much. I am in school for Human Services and next year I will be getting my bachelors for Psychology. I learned so much in my classes and bullying is always a topic. It’s terrible how hurtful and inconsiderate people can be. I am so happy for you that you can push passed this and continue being you and happy. You are such an inspiration! Don’t let the opinions of others consume you. You have so many people who do not need to know you that support you and that number highly outweighs the negativity. You are truly a good person for being able to rise above this and carry on with your life, as you should do. just remember how people treat other people is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves. When I feel sad or down about something, i look up quotes on pinterest (which now has hundreds of pins, I draw, or I go for a ride on my motorcycle. It seems odd but the down time helps me. Do what makes you happy and gets you through this. Some people just suck and always remember that you are a strong person who inspires and motivates thousands of people just by doing what you do and being you! <3
Paige says
That was poignant. I think as a blogger you’ll always be vulnerable to criticism and one thing I have really come to terms with from years of therapy and self-evaluation is that the most important person in your life is you and people will always have an opinion about you and no matter how hard you try, you can’t change their mind. The best thing you can do for yourself is know who you are and don’t let anyone tell you who you aren’t. I was a lot more immature at your age, I admire your wisdom and strength.
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Stephanie says
Hi Taralynn,
I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for the cruel things people have said to you. I cannot even begin to understand why anyone would say anything so rude and inconsiderate to you.
You deserve better than that. You are remarkable, creative, and incredibly kind. You have taught me so much about food and how to learn to love myself. I lost 20 lbs. just by copying some of your meals. You are amazing! I have told so many people about you and what you’ve done for me. I feel blessed to have found your blog and to “know”you. Keep up the great work!
-Stephanie
Erinn says
Thank you once again! You are such an inspiration. I have followed you for so many years and you are such an amazing young woman. There are so many internet trolls out there. I recently put my blog on hold as I was getting so much “heat” about my low calorie recipes that I felt that I was doing something wrong….It takes such strength to put yourself out there and you deserve a hug and a nice glass of wine. I will start my blog up again soon once I learn to deal with all of those internet trolls that have no problem throwing the dirt! Keep it up Taralynn!
Aaliyah says
The haters are probably just jealous because of your positive aura. ^-^
You’ve accomplished so much and I’m glad that you are not letting the haters bring you down.
I personally can’t imagine someone writing mean comments just to bring them down. I mean, it is just a waste of effort and it won’t truly make someone feel better about themselves.
There should be more people like you, Tara. 🙂
Good luck and merry xmas!! ^-^
-Aaliyah xoxo
Barbara says
Hi Taralynn,
I just discovered your blog and am shocked that you have to deal with bullies! From what I have already read, you seem like an amazing person and it takes a brave individual to share their struggles. Keep doing what you are doing. Your healthy recipes and exercise tips are very inspirational.
People who take the time to be mean to someone else are lame.
Barbara
Erika says
Such a great post, Taralynn! I’m just catching up on your blog now, and I love this post. Your handling of this (sad, sad) issue is so graceful–I admire your ability to brush off the ugly comments and keep on with your beautiful blog, because so many of us appreciate everything you do. You go lady <3
Jenni says
Omg Taralynn! I am so sorry you have to go through all of this! You are so beautiful, inside and out! I love your enervy. You are such a straight forward go getter who knows exactly what she wants and how she’s gonna get it no matter what anyone thinks! Keep being your awesome self xoxo
Janay says
I love this blog and I love this post. I don’t understand people who hide their real identity and post hurtful and spiteful comments. Just remember how many people do love you and the work you put into this blog and all other aspects of your life. As Taylor Swift said ‘haters gonna hate’ and ‘shake it off’. Sometimes it’s not that easy but when you think of the positives x
Becca says
I read your blog regularly and have for a few years. When I read this post back in December, I was shocked that somebody would go as far as tracking down your parents house. But after coming across GOMI I wasn’t surprised one bit. Those people honestly must not have anything better to do with their lives the analysis and criticize everything you say and do. They say how pathetic you are but really they’re the ones who are stalking you. They’re completely inthatchuated with your life, it’s unhealthy and is a mental illness. If your life bothers them so much, then why don’t they just stop reading your blog..it’s that simple. Who cares what you do for a career, who you date or what you do with your life because in the end it’s your life and you can live it however you want! Don’t let those low life’s get in the way of your happiness. Throw up your middle finger and forget they ever existed. Do your thing girl(:
Wendy says
Oh Sweet Girl, It pains my heart to see this has happened to you. I’m so sorry. You keep positive, shake it off and keep posting. I can tell you that your blog has helped me loose weight and keep on my own journey to better health. I remember stumbling onto your site via pinterest and I’m so glad I did. I use the recipes on here all the time. You are such a positive inspiration and I’m so glad that you chose to post your journey. Haters will never win in the end.
With much appreciation to you
Wendy
Audrey says
Wow, I have been appreciative of your awesome recipes and your inspirational story for several years now. I have never commented before and I don’t read all of your posts, so I was shocked to hear that you receive so much negativity for writing something so inspirational and helpful to others!! I feel sad for those people, and I wanted to say thank you for sharing your story and such awesome low-calorie recipes with us! My favorite so far is the chicken teriyaki burgers 🙂
Terry says
Hey! When are we going to see another one of these Dear Bullies post?s These are soo funny. I love it when food bloggers like you write “poor me feel sorry for me” posts. I was laughing the whole entire time I was reading this.
Casandra says
Tara-I want to say that I have been a reader of your blog for a long time. Long before you had this page. You have provided great tips, ideas, and most importantly been an example of what it means to have courage. Not one of us is perfect, but as long as we try our best thats all anyone can ask. Like our good friend Kevin G said, “Don’t let the haters get you down.”
appzprocz says
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Michelle says
Wow, I am stunned! How awful people can be! So sorry you had to or still have to go through any of that. I think what you have done at a young age in reaching goals, maintaining health etc is very inspiring. Congrats to you and keep pushing forward.
Giusi says
Dear Taralynn,
These persons are just…idiots ! You are the strongest person I’ve ever seen and it’s always a pleasure to read you ! As a little girl I was bullied on my blog and it was…a horrible period ! Reading your article today makes me smile because you are so right !!! Keep living your life as you want and stay as you are ! Nobody can take our integrity ! Aah…. they are so jealous that’s all !!
P.S : I’ve tried to reach you by email few times but no response 🙁 I hope you’ll read my post and share one day a comment or something else with me 🙂 I’m a healthy blogger too but…a French one aha 🙂
Tameika Larkan says
Nice man thanks for sharing! Love your posts! Keep up the hard word brother!